Over the last several years, I have often been asked about my availability to photograph weddings.
I have always answered the same way. Weddings? I didn’t do weddings.
That changed this winter. I’m now taking wedding contracts, and in fact I have signed with my first two brides. And I’m really excited! It feels exactly right.
So then why, in the 11 years since I started getting really serious about photography and the 4 years since I started taking professional contracts, did I never say yes to a wedding?
Short answer: I was terrified.
Wedding photography is a huge responsibility.
I have always hesitated before taking on something new for clients, because I want to be able to give them what they really need from their photographer, and I can’t stand the thought that I might not provide it.
And hey — your wedding day is one of the most important days in your life. It changes your life. It’s not just a big party (that too): it’s a day for publicly declaring a commitment between two people that will forever shape their friendships, their family, and often even their careers and life prospects.
And the photographer’s job?
- Heather and Dave were married at his cottage in the Brockville area of Eastern Ontario, Canada. It was a rainy day, but the view was still lovely!
The photographer’s job is to make works of art that will recall the events and emotions of the day, bringing a smile (or a tear?) every time anyone looks at the resulting album or prints.
It’s a big deal.
The last many years I have focussed on portraits and events, honing my skills. And hey — I’m all about portraits, and I love running around capturing the spirit of an event! I am definitely going to keep doing these things.
But! I recently realized that the skills I use in those contexts — the ones used to capture beautiful portraits, or portray the emotions and personalities at a party or show or reception — are the very skills I would need at a wedding!
And thinking about that, I recently started saying “yes”.
I still have lots to learn, and I’m still terrified. But… I’m ready!

And if you’re looking for more information about this, please feel free to contact me by telephone at 1-514-933-3233, by email (bruce@brucetoombs.ca), or on my website! I can’t wait to hear from you.